1

Do everything you can before the age of 6 years old. Remember your ultimate goal of "normalcy" and do not settle for less.

2

Be your own advocate for your child in the schools. Get professional help and be prepared.

3

You love your child unconditionally. Find a professional who feels the same way.

4

The child should like the professionals he or she goes to the first time.

5

Never lose your sense of humor regarding your child.

6

Tell the professional the most important thing you want for your child. That should be his #1 priority.

7

Talk to the professional after every session about your child.

8

Observe the remarkable things about your child and report them to the practitioner. Have him or her give you a perspective on your child.

9

Keep asking questions. Just because your child is older does not mean that you know everything.

10

Go to the Ask Rob page, email or call him and feel free to ask questions about your child.